Dr John Gray- Relationship Tips For Men
Here are the top 5 mistakes men commonly make that will unknowingly turn off your partner:
No1:
Not listening.Gets distracted or not asking concerned questions.
Effect: She feels unloved because he is not showing that he cares. Women craves for attention.
No2:
Takes her feeling literally and offers solutions. Men tend to offer solution as we are wired to solve problems in order to feel successful. She just wants a listening ear.
Effect: She feels unloved because he does not understand her.
No 3:
He listens but get angry.
Effect: She feels unloved because he does not respect her feelings.
No 4:
He spends more time with children or work is more important.
Effect: She feels unloved because he does not honor her as special and is not devoted to her.
No 5:
When she is upset, he explains why he is right and why she should not feel upset.
Effect: She feels unloved because he did not validate her feelings and feels unsupported.
In summary, whenever she complains, just give her full attention. Maintain eye contact and nod your head a few times. Do not offer solutions ( unless she specifically ask).
Say something nice to her and give her some hugs.
Women will complain as that is their way of solving problems.